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Dr. Wang psychological clinics run for some years, the case of natural number, this time he said was one - girls to delay marriage

of: Wang Guangzhong (fair to housing counseling room)

two years ago, she began to call my phone, when she had graduated from college a few years, and have a good job, And, by her own account, and looks too good, that marriage is not smooth. Is not no chance (she had had many suitors), but feel that their living space is too small, no contact with excellent opportunities for men. Relatives and friends described her are not satisfied,ghds 76hA girl's life and the story behind a song,, and the marriage agency has always crazye her feel unsafe.

We had several conversations, in fact, no contact with the girl is not the best man's chance, but when this opportunity came, she did not have the ability to catch them - not with those of her first an impression of a very ordinary man to make some more contacts, and can not find their true merit; and when she saw the face of his look and man, did not dare to initiate a bit of self-expression. She wanted to offer the judgment that a perfect image, so afraid of their own shortcomings may be exposed to any action, the result is that her ideal man who is also arduous to find her strengths.

later, she finally relented, a young man. Can be followed but it is more trouble: She often on the phone told me that she can not stand his indeviateence. Although not far away, but he alsteps want to see her once a month face, and met, there is not much enhenceiasm. Six months later, she left a little tired of this \

not long before she met current boyfriend. He did not diploma, is a technical worker, the income is not high, but she felt he was very practionical, to be himself is sincere. Way to start my love. Almost six months, she did not called my phone, I want to talk about her love may be relatively smooth, no longer as there are so many baneful evil mood.

few months ago, I received her phone: \toilers, such as her income is less than high, so other people have had some comments, so her heart is full of contradictions. \

this conflict of emotions has been sustained, to marry him again and again boyfriend, and she was delayed again and again that the relationship between the two have become strained. Finally, she told me on the phone: \

girl 28 years old, was already out of the age of obtainting married, she prepared for the marriage is obviously not sufficient. To be sure, there are many of her boyfriend who appreciate the strengths,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or their relationshipship will not develop to the extent gonna get married (he was not that great, \words and deeds, or the backshore.) Her inner conflict, stems from her not want to quit their requirements for the perfection of life. Out of a psychological dependence, see her marriage is extremely important, so that the body accepting the advantages of each other after the other who did not dare venture to accept the shortcomings and deficiencies, and she was afraid they would hurt the happiness of his life.

delay marriage befactor of the lack of coufury in the face of real life; the face like the man \Therefore, the girl was not \

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